R.I.P Panties: Passion, Desire And Thinking With Your Vagina

Passion and desire are expressed in as many different ways as there are people in the world. Depending on the kind of person you are, the level of intensity you feel, and whether it is reciprocated are all factors when it comes to the way you express your desire and passion.

For me, it’s not all been flamenco dances in sexy red dresses and rose petals thrust in my direction. They say that guys think with their downstairs brain most of the time, but when I get horny with nowhere to direct it I start to think with my vagina. Yes, Its totally a thing. It’s an ache, an overwhelming desire that needs to be acted on straight away or I might figuratively explode.

So I search for a way to literally explode – into the throes of a tremendous orgasm.

As a single lady, that unimaginable thirst can be quite hard to satisfy. You’d be surprised at how many men I may have hit up (on Tinder, yes) who have been cautious of my not-so-subtle advances. Whether they think I am catfishing them or suddenly want to “go slower” it can be ridiculously hard to convince someone to have sex with me.

I’ve only managed to do it twice, primarily because I usually have a healthy sex life that minimises my vaginal thinking. The first guy I went over and had sex with for an hour, put on my clothes and then walked out the door, never to be heard from again. The second guy tore up my pussy with his giant cock (actually literally) and then told me he wanted to “think about it” when I suggested doing it again and then never got back to me. Probably for the best anyway – I don’t think my girl could have handled him again.

So based on my experiences it seems that I am the only one with all the apparent needs and desires. You see in movies and TV shows and hear in stories that the desire and passion for a person is so intense that they can’t keep their hands off each other, and it reached the point that being ravaged that way ended up becoming a fantasy for me. I started to wonder if that is actually possible for someone to feel that for me.

Today, with a giant grin on my face, I am telling you that it is! It is truly intense and electrifying to be on the other side of the passion and desire, where the other person is going to explode if they don’t get to touch you.

And it is a fantastic feeling to be desired that way.

I met a guy at a dating event and we hit it off pretty well. From the moment we walked away from each other we were in constant contact and the compatibility escalated rather quickly. We had a lot of likes in common, and our sexual preferences seemed to match pretty well. Upon discovering that we pretty much ramped the sexual innuendos and desires up to a level 20 to the point where he was hard under his desk at work and I was practically humping my chair at 8.48 in the morning.

The desire to fuck each other was intense.

We had a date in two days but I couldn’t stand the wait so I called it. I invited him over that night and we spent the rest of the day talking dirty to each other about what we were going to do. He told me that he couldn’t wait to get his hands on me the moment he walked in the door.

Suddenly it was like my fantasy was coming true. By the time he came round I was in a full expensive lingerie set complete with collared bra, corset, barely there panties and thigh high wet-look stockings. He opened the door, saw me standing there, walked straight over to me and took me in the most passionate and hungry kiss I have ever received.

We’d spent all day building up to it and it was as hot as fire. He picked me up and pinned me to the wall, taking my mouth in his as we both shucked our clothes. He ripped my $300 set panties straight off my body and bit my thighs.

Now that is fucking.

Being desired in this way, where someone walks across the room and quite literally rips your clothes off (RIP Panties ;P) is so unbelievably sexy, so passionate, and so amazing that I highly recommend you do this with that special person in your life. Spend the day building up to it – send a sexy note, take a naughty picture, flash them your favourite stockings under your clothes. Great sex is all about building on to your current place, so don’t be afraid to build the passion and desire.

It will make your partner feel so special and desired by you, it will ignite the fire in you, and it will lead to some pretty damn amazing sex.

And in that end, that’s what we’re all craving whether you admit it to yourself or not.

Photo by Helga Weber